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People Make Mistakes
2005-05-10, 5:01 p.m.

WARNING!!!! If you know me personally, you may read my diary, but if you do, you take the chance of reading things you don't want to know, misunderstanding what I've written and being hurt by it. If you are unsure if it is okay to read, save yourself, and me, the grief and heartache, and ask first!!! Please note that this is a DIARY, I.E. my subjective feelings, hearsay, suppositions, and outpourings of ranting of the moment. It does not represent objective news, the whole of what I think of a topic or someone, or even a thought-out representation of any of the above. This I hope you keep in mind, and thank you for reading.

People...make...mistakes. If you really wanted a time machine, would you still go back? When are you going to learn when enough is enough? I'm all for never giving up on one's truest dreams, but sometimes you gotta sit back, sleep in the newspapers, and take a damn break. At least.

People make mistakes. If you don't learn this, you will not get very far in life. And when you do learn this, pass it on. The greatest thing a learner can do is teach. Teach with experience.

It's a couple of best friends sitting in a car in the dark, one driving the other home. The driver, lately, has had to deal with a lot of rejection. Her last boyfriend, swordsman Brady, has moved on and is now even going out with another girl, for Prom. But we all move on, don't we?

But the story of Chelsey hasn�t gotten any better. She�s a great friend, I kid you not, but she�s everybody�s great friend. Perhaps this is reasoning enough why she�s given failed attempts at asking out guys.

Rejection. It hurts. It's probably the worst thing in the world, isn't it? I wouldn't know...but that's only because I'm a shy guy. Too shy to ask for it, I�d say. But we're not talking about me.

So there's this girl, and she's rejected. If it were me, being rejected once would scar me just enough to begin thinking about who I was. Without asking anyone to the prom (yet), in the first place, I wouldn't expect people to ever say yes. I'm always thinking about how it would be like if they said no.

Don�t expect people to say yes.

As powerful as you are in girl world, don't think any of that would matter when it comes to the men. But when you start turning your fellow woman against the men...only then will you understand how evil you are. To understand this, first, stop and think about what the hell you are doing. Evil. This is true evil, among many other things.

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The driving girl and the boy are like best friends. If I didn't know any better, the girl would be the boy's best friend. And right there, before dropping him off at his house, she asks him�to prom.

In my world, asking your closest friends to Prom is NOT something you should do. However, I am a true believer in the theory that the best relationships have a good basis of friendship under them. Chelsey has that effect on all people, she�s a good friend.

He was probably thinking that it'd be more like a �just friends� kind of deal. Of course, the night she asked, he was kinda excited and wanting to go with her...then he was quiet, in the car. (This is what I heard from the girl). Caught �off guard?� Perhaps this was his way of trying not to hurt her? Or he was trying not to hurt her�to her face. Bad move?

This was his mistake. People make mistakes, Godscrew it. It happens! If HE had a time machine, MAYBE he'd want to change the time to go back. Then he�d have to see the look on her face when he became another member of �Rejecting Chelsey Anonymous.�

In fifth hour (where I have computer access), after reading the conversation between Chelsey, the girl, and Justin, the boy, I wrote up some stuff that I think all girls should read. I'm a guy, but that doesn't mean I'm on the guy's side. It may seem, sometimes, like I'm always against Chelsey, but hell no, I'm trying to help her.

~~

You don't want to lose friends in high school. High school is important in life giving you one supercool advantage, the socialism. The study of people. Peopology. High school is psychology without schooling. Use it wisely.

People only think about themselves when you really need to think about others. At least think about what they're thinking. This is something Byrdman, a known dipshit, never does. If he sat and thought about why he did some things instead of telling people, such as my mom, that his curse is his dumbassness, then he'd be a lot better off in life.

Always learn shit from your past relationships. Never let any kind of relationship end without knowing why it ended and how it can be corrected in the future. This is, in fact, why it is important to have relationships in high school. It truly is getting ready for "the real world." Plus, after being in so many relationships, I would think you would be so hardened that, by the end of the latest, the "last straw," you will be so hardened that soon, nothing can effect you. You will be, in a sense, invincible. A superhero to all women. Your special power would be going through future relationships unharmed and able to make the guy think you really don't care.

People want what they can't have. Who knows why? It's retarded.

As much as people would say otherwise, the only side anybody takes is their own. We all have to right to be selfish once in a while, but trust me, sometimes it would be to your advantage to think about others. Plus, you�ll feel better about yourself. And then you�ll be able to say that you think about others more than yourself.

Friends of both parties don't take sides. However, if you try to manipulate someone to turn against the other, that is evil, that will forever be known as evil.

You can't ever expect someone to say yes. That's like The Fat One, who spent Mother's Day playing softball with my cousin's saying "I'm the best at softball, and I've never even played before." It's called self-promotion, and it is just not a good characteristic that will get you very far in life.

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I have been feeling very sorry about the whole situation and I felt obligated to write�something. Chelsey, forgive Justin...for God's sake, and yours. And his. He made a mistake, and if you're not gonna move on, that's holding him back. You will have regrets. You will have made the bigger mistake. Tell him to forget about it before it's too late. Justin is one of the coolest guys on the face of the earth, and you cannot afford to lose him. He wouldn't want to lose you. Even I know that.

Justin never said that you weren't special. You are special to him, and THAT is why he said no. I'm not on Justin's �side,� I'm on your side, trying to help you, and I want you to learn. I want what�s best, as I always do. When you learn...your pain will forever end.

It would be so easy just to forgive any forget. So easy. Maybe that�s the biggest difference between men and women. Men are willing to forget and move on.

Godspeed.

NOTE: Obviously, not all of what was written above has anything to do with the situation with Chelsey. I wrote it for womankind. From a man�s point of view, this entry defines what we see, what we�re thinking. Maybe you can get something out of it or not. I hope that I am worthy of teaching a thing or two, and I hope that you can get something out of what I have to say.

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